Fatwa #2836219 February 2014Norway
I have to marry a guy against my choice
Question
1) Is it permissible to make dua that Allah Subhana Watala I have been forced to this nika on my engagement as You know wedding is not happen yet So please Allah Subhana Watala help me to getting marry with a boy I want and I Promised that I will not contact him until he become mahram to me I will control my Nafs In Shaa Allah.
2) Please guide me or give me Wazifa to controlling my Nafs. Wallahi iam lost now I need a guide so I kindly request that help me for The seek of Allah Subhana Watala
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
As-salāmu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullāhi wa-barakātuh.
If you are experiencing difficulty in getting married to a person against your choice, you should discuss this with your parents. If they do not listen to your concerns, contact a senior person of the family and request his help.
Keep on making dua to Allah Ta’ala to guide you and assist you.
When one is faced with a difficulty, adopt all worldly means to address the problem. Wazifas and duas alone are not sufficient.
Nevertheless, recite the following dua:
رب اني مغلوب فانتصر
Transliteration: rabbi anni magloobun fantasir
Translation: O my Rabb, indeed I am overpowered so assist me.
And Allah Ta’āla Knows Best
Fahad Abdul Wahab
Student Darul Iftaa
USA
Checked and Approved by,
Mufti Ebrahim Desai