Fatwa #23405

Asalam O Aliqum..Alim sahab mera sawal yeh ha ka aj say 9 months pehlay meri shadi hui. meray husband nay 1st night mujh say kaha ka tum mera pardah hoo ma tumhara pardah hoon.....ma nay sachaye par apnay rishtay ka agaz kya aur un ko apnay face kay hair problem ka mutaliq bata dya ka mera face par hair hain unhon nay us waqt kaha mujhay koi masla nahi ha koi problem nahi ha........two months shadi ka bilkul theek guzar gaye ma MashaAllah pregnant bhi hoo gaye.....darasal meray husband ratoon ko late atay hain, doston main uthna baithna unko zyada pasand ha. unkay doston kee society achi bhi nahi ha...woh shadi nahi karna chahtay thay azad zindagi guzarna chahtay thay waldain nay zabardasti shadi kee.....ab woh mujh say itni nafrat kartay hain face ka hair kee wajha say.......kehtay hain tum logon ko pehlay batana chahye tha.. tum logon nay hum say jhoot bola ha.....mujh say itni nafrat kartay hain ka batain apnay meray darmyan kee bajaye mujhay batanay ka apnay waldain ko batatay hain....waldain ko meray khilaf kar dya ha. woh waldain ko kehtay hain ka ma nay iss bemar aurat ko nahi rakhna. ap nay meri zabardasti shadi karwaye ha. ma nay toh is ko daikha bhi nahi jub ka engangment say pehlay 4, 5 dafa ghar aye. waldain kehtay hain ka woh iss say itni nafrat karta ha ka woh toh kehta ha iss ko toh hath laganay ko dil nahi karta iss say baat karnay say bhi mujhay nafrat ati ha. ab unkay rasam ha pehla bacha maa ka ghar hota ha mujhay 7th month ma baap ka ghar bhaij dya ha na dr par lay jatay hain na phone kartay hain na milnay atay hain, jhoot par jhoot boltay hain ma he phone karoon toh karon woh na kartay hain aur aksar uthatay bhi nahi. meri toh ghar ma mother bhi nahi hain. ma bahut pareshan hoon ka kya karoon. woh toh suna ha rakhnay ko tayar tak nahi mujhay.. na izzat kartay thay na baat kartay thay, sunday bhi ghar say bahar guzar atay thay, ab aulad ma bhi koi dilchaspi nahi ha. bahut zehni aziyat ma hoon. meri rahnumaye farmayen..Allah ap ko jaza day ga..... Ameen