My mother and father is separated for a year because father is having a affair with another woman. my mom is crying a lot

It is very traumatic when such sad situations creep into our lives leaving%0D%0Aus distraught. Also with inflances of TV, movies, media, adultery and%0D%0Aaffairs have become a norm an epidemic in society, may Allah Ta'ala guide%0D%0Aall.%0D%0A%0D%0AGive mum lots of support and encouragement. Brighten her day, cheer her up%0D%0Ashower her with love help her cope, this phase too will soon pass Insha%0D%0AAllah. Encourage her to use tear positively to cry to Allah Ta'ala only he%0D%0Acan change situation and duas of an oppressed person reaches the heavens and%0D%0AAllah Ta'ala answers them. Encourage her to duas at Tahajjud time, alone she%0D%0Acan pour her heart, pain and trauma to Allah Ta'ala. Insha Allah she will%0D%0Aexperience such sakeena, peace in her heart and will be able to go on with%0D%0Alife. Rememeber to if father comes back , it may not be the same as affairs%0D%0Ado alter life, people, personalities, financial status etc. Try to be in%0D%0Acontact with positive people who will give you care and support. Your%0D%0Afinancial situation too may be affected. Turn to Allah Ta'ala ask HIM to%0D%0Aprovide and open doors of Rizq from sources unknown. Man lets' you down%0D%0AAllah Ta'ala never does.%0D%0A%0D%0AAs a child hate the sin not your father. Phone him if you can be pleasant,%0D%0Aask about his health, how he is etc, express your love%2F care. Win him back%0D%0Awith love. If he asks about mum express positively of some of the good%0D%0Athings and you siblings shared and miss.%0D%0A%0D%0AMake lot of dua for Allah Ta'ala to guide him. May Allah Ta'ala re-unite%0D%0Ayour family and bring happiness love and laughter back in your home, Insha%0D%0AAllah.%0D%0A%0D%0Aand Allah Ta'ala Knows Best%0D%0A%0D%0AMufti Ebrahim Desai