Fatwa #7082 September 2000Pakistan
Is it a sunnah or a fard for women to put henna on their hands?
Question
I want to find out whether there is a reference regarding this in the holy Qur'an or in the hadith. Jazakallah-Khair.
Answer
Hazrath Ayesha (Radhiallaahu Anha) narrates that Hinda, the daughter of
Utbah said, Oh Prophet of Allah, grant me Bai'at (allegiance). Rasulullah
(Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) replied, I will not grant you Bai at until you
change your palms (apply mehndi) - (Mishkat pg.383 -Rahimiya)
Hazrat Ayesha (Radhiallaahu Anha) states that a woman behind a curtain
presented a letter to Rasulullah (Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam).
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) withdrew his hand saying I do not
know if this is a males hand or females hand, the woman replied, Rasulullah
((Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) said, 'If you were a female you would have
changed your nails, (by applying mehndi)' - (Ibid)
In view of the above quoted hadith one of the reasons for females applying
mehndi is to distinguish her hands from that of a male. That can be best
achieved by applying mehndi on the palms and the nails. That can also be
achieved by applying mehndi on only the palms or only on the nails.
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai