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Fatwa #639515 August 2002India

What is the preferrable age for a boy to get married?

Question

1) What is the preferrable age for a boy to get married? 2) Is it allowed to give thalaq to wife if she stops the husband from going to Jihad?

Answer

1. Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) is reported to have said, 'He who has%0D%0Athe ability to marry, should do so.' (Mishkaat).%0D%0AThere is no specific age or time by rule at which one should marry, however,%0D%0Afrom the teachings of Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) we are taught that%0D%0Aone should not delay. After a person matures and once he becomes responsible%0D%0Aand it is easy for the necessary arrangements to be made, he should%0D%0Aimmediately get married. This may vary according to difficult individuals.%0D%0AGenerally, one average in our times, approximately 20 - 21 should be a good%0D%0Aage.%0D%0A2. From the outset, we must understand that Talaaq is most hatred in the%0D%0Acourt of Allah Ta'ala. This earns the anger of Allah Ta'ala. When a dispute%0D%0Abetween both spouses occur, all sorts of effort for reconciliation should be%0D%0Athoroughly looked into. Nevertheless, going for Jihaad is not compulsory%0D%0Aupon every single individual at present times whilst to fulfil the rights of%0D%0Aour wives is compulsory. It will, therefore, not be permissible to give the%0D%0Awife Talaq merely becase she stops the husband from Jihaad. Instead, there%0D%0Ashould be understanding between husband and wife. The husband should make an%0D%0Aeffort to inculcate good qualities in his wife, making her understand Jihaad%0D%0Aand all other aspects of Deen so that when Jihaad does become compulsory,%0D%0Ashe will encourage him to go forward.%0D%0A%0D%0Aand Allah Ta'ala Knows Best%0D%0A%0D%0AMufti Ebrahim Desai
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