Fatwa #569923 May 2002United Arab Emirates
Q1 : Can wife use her hand to give pleasure to husband. Q2 : Can wife wear men's cloth in bedroom where only her husband is present.
Question
Q1 : My wife has given birth to a child through Cesarean Section, 45 days ago. but since her stitches are still not healed completely, doctor told to avoid relationship. My question is whether can i ask her to use her hand on my private part to give me pleasure. I seek answer in the light of Quran & Sunnah. Q2 : Can wife wear T-Shirt/Pant (which is commonly used by men) infront of her husband(if he is asking) in bedroom,where no one else can see her. Is is permissible to husband to ask this & also is it permissible to wife to do so?
Answer
1. Yes, this is permissible.
2. A woman may dress up for her husband in any manner that may please him.
However, it is not permissible to wear clothes that are specifically
designed for men. Hadhrat ibn Abbaas (Radhiallaahu Anhu) narrates that
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) cursed those men that resemble
women and those women that resemble men.' (Bukhari part2 pg.874).
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
2. A woman may dress up for her husband in any manner that may please him.
However, it is not permissible to wear clothes that are specifically
designed for men. Hadhrat ibn Abbaas (Radhiallaahu Anhu) narrates that
Rasulullah (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) cursed those men that resemble
women and those women that resemble men.' (Bukhari part2 pg.874).
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
Mufti Ebrahim Desai