Fatwa #51207 March 2002Canada
Asalam Walikum, I am 21 and i am married to a 31 year old man. After 2 weeks of our marriage he had stopped making love to me. He doesn't have a reason. We are now 4 months into our marriage
Answer
Nikah is a relationship built on mutual understanding and trust.
You should, therefore, try your utmost to win over his confidence to explain
to you the reason for his actions. You should also explain to him your
feelings and what your desires are. Adopt a different method of seducing him
and enticing him to make love to you. Also engage yourself in excessive Du'
aa and give out some Sadaqaat (charity).
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.
CHECKED AND APPROVED: Moulana Imraan Vawda
You should, therefore, try your utmost to win over his confidence to explain
to you the reason for his actions. You should also explain to him your
feelings and what your desires are. Adopt a different method of seducing him
and enticing him to make love to you. Also engage yourself in excessive Du'
aa and give out some Sadaqaat (charity).
and Allah Ta'ala Knows Best
for: Mufti Ebrahim Desai
FATWA DEPT.
CHECKED AND APPROVED: Moulana Imraan Vawda