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Fatwa #4816222 November 2021South Africa

Marriage Discourses By Mufti Ebrahim Desai (Rahimahullah)

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Marriage Discourses - By Mufti Ebrahim Desai (Rahimahullah) 

Westville Masjid, KZN,  South Africa (06/20120)

Mufti Ebrahim Desai Saheb commenced the programme by acknowledging that many loyal and dedicated women become victims of irresponsible husbands. He pointed out in the light of Hadeeth that a woman is like a glass, fragile and delicate. She should be handled with care.

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Mufti Saheb then highlighted 5 areas of concern:

  1. Make your husband’s house your home.
  2. Don’t welcome him with a barrage of complains. The incident about Umm Sulaim (Radi Allahu Anha) was captivating.
  3. Serve your husband and fulfill his biological needs.
  4. In an argument one should back down. A string will snap if both sides pull.
  5. The importance of observing Hijab.

The above points were discussed in much detail with real life incidents.

The lecture concluded with a beautiful marriage recipe and a Dua.

Listen to the discourses here.

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