Fatwa #409662 September 2018United Kingdom
What can I do to marry a girl whom I love?
Question
Salaam sheikh can u help me with a wazifa or amaal to do..im in love with this girl our relationship is distance an we do not talk but im in love an would like to marry her but need her to feel the same way...jazakh allahu khair
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, The Most Merciful.
As-salaamu `alaykum wa-ramatullahi wa-barakatuh.
You enquire about a wazeefa to make the girl love you as you love her.
If you love the girl and wish to marry her, then follow procedures. Shariah has advised the boy and girl to see each other for mutual attraction.[1]
Discuss the issue with your parents or elders and request them to take the matter forward.
And Allah Ta`ala Knows Best.
Hussein Muhammad.
Student Darul Iftaa
Arusha, Tanzania
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.
الدر المختار شرح تنوير الأبصار وجامع البحار (ص: 177)
ويندب إعلانه وتقديم خطبة وكونه في مسجد يوم جمعة بعاقد رشيد وشهود عدول، والاستدانة
له والنظر إليها قبله،
النهر الفائق شرح كنز الدقائق (2/ 176)
والنظر إلى الزوجة قبله سنة