Fatwa #408486 August 2018United States of America
Will the words “I want a divorce” constitute a divorce?
Question
Few months ago I was angry at my wife, and I was alone in my car with my son (toddler), i said loudly, i want divorce (one time), of cource i didn't want to, but i said in moment of anger. after that everthing went to normal. does this mean talaq has happened ? if yes, what should be the next step as this happend probably 4 or 5 months ago.
Answer
In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, The Most Merciful.
As-salaamu `alaykum wa-ramatullahi wa-barakatuh.
Your statement, I want divorce is an expression of a wish. You did not issue her a divorce. The statement does not constitute a divorce. We advise you to avoid threatening your wife with divorce. Your nafs and shaitaan could dominate the situation and you would regret your action.[1]
And Allah Ta`ala Knows Best.
Hussein Muhammad.
Student Darul Iftaa
Arusha, Tanzania
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai.
البحر الرائق شرح كنز الدقائق ومنحة الخالق وتكملة الطوري (8/ 549)
فإن نوى بهذه الألفاظ الطلاق وقع فإن لم ينو لا يقع؛ لأنه من الكنايات
مختصر القدوري (ص: 155)
ولا يقع بها الطلاق إلا بينة أو دلاله حال
مختصر القدوري (ص: 156)
والشتيمة ولم يقع بما يقصد به السب والشتيمه إلا أن ينويه