Fatwa #27664 May 2001United Kingdom
Are men allow to give salaam to women and vice versa?
Question
If yes should the man or the woman give it first? and to which extand are we allowed to dicuss with a stanger of the opposite sex? i.e. how are you...
Answer
It is permissible for Mahram (prohibited in marriage) males and females to%0D%0Amake Salaam to one another as there is no fear of Fitna.%0D%0A%0D%0AAs regards Ghayr Mahram (not prohibited in marriage) males and females%0D%0Amaking Salaam to one another, consider the following points:%0D%0A1. Salaam means peace and it is a quality of Allah.%0D%0A2. Salaam is a Du'aa%0D%0A3. There are great virtues for making Salaam to one another%0D%0A4. Men and women by nature are attracted to the opposite sex.%0D%0A5. In many instances, illicit relationship (lustful glances, etc.) between%0D%0AGhayr Mahram male and female commenced with Salaams.%0D%0A%0D%0AThe virtues of making salaam are well known but the possible negative%0D%0Afactors of Ghayr Mahram males and females cannot be ignored as well. It is a%0D%0Awellknown principle in Shari'ah, that if possible harms are more than the%0D%0Apossible benefits, then the former (harms) will prevail as avoiding harm is%0D%0Amore important than gaining benefit.%0D%0A%0D%0Aand Allah Ta'ala Knows Best%0D%0A%0D%0AMufti Ebrahim Desai%0D%0AFATWA DEPT.%0D%0A