Fatwa #1892326 August 2010India
Dua to make a girl marry me
Question
I really like a girl she is muslim too and i too is a muslim ,i know her as she is a daughter of my mummy friend can i say to allha or can i make dua to allha that as i have fallen in love with her she should too fall in love with me so as i can marry her . my intensions are to marry her only but she fall in love with me it would be great for both of us actually i never got a chance to talk to her so much only litte bit i really want her to know me so as she decide that iam capable to keep her happy and i suit to all her desires of a man she hope that is a reason i want to make her to fall in love with me and if she decide that iam not good enough for her,can leave me i have no such intensions to make her sex and all physical desires
[b]I just want to make her love ,and to see her as my future wife just so simple
that is the reason i make dua to allha that i should get a chance to meet her frequently and to make her know about my self so as she should like me and then to marry her
that it all
Answer
In the name of Allāh, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalāmu ῾alaykum wa Rahmatullāhi Wabarakātuh
There are three issues to your query
- Break up of your relationship
- Your intention to marry
- Akhirah
It is a natural phenomenon among dating couples that their partners are never loyal and faithful. Since the basis of the relationship is on Haraam, the relation will never prosper to be a source of peace and blessings. It is not surprising that the girl dumped you as woman who are exposed to these type of relationships normally jump from one to another depending on how of much their material greed is satisfied.
We are human and we are bound to err. It is unfortunate that you have became a victim of such a relationship. However, this should not deter you from entering into a relationship which is lawful. The benefits of a lawful relation are innumerable. It is natural for you to have feelings for the opposite gender and Islam encourages you to channel these feelings in a lawful manner. Shariah discourages one to abandon the practice of Nikah (marriage) as such practice is unnatural. Your intention to never marry is not in line with the spirit of Islam and Deen. You should therefore put the past to rest and search for a lawful partner with true Islamic ideals, morals and values. Having such a partner will become a source of your comfort and peace in this world and also a means of your situation in Akhirat.
May Allah grant you a compatible partner. May Allah grant you peace and solace, Ameen
And Allāh Ta῾āla Knows Best
Checked and Approved by:
Mufti Ebrahim Desai
Dārul Iftā