Fatwa #1474929 November 2006Pakistan
I love someone which is girl and i really love her and she also love me.And we both lot of those work which are illegal in Islam..
Question
I love someone which is girl and i really love her and she also love me.And we both lot of those work which are illegal in Islam..but not so for exent.sir we both at late night at the mobile talking in our golden night.Can this right.
and i tell him alot of time to marry with me secertely because his parents want that the marrige cannot happen till to estabilished me..now plz tell me what is method to adopt in which we both live happly each other.we are so tenstion about this .
Answer
What both of you are engaged in is clearly haraam. There is no doubt about that. The free talk between you and the girl falls in the category of Zina, which is a major sin. Your free talk with each other serves to feed your Nafs and desires. Make tawbah and come out of that situation immediately. For that, courage is required. Sincere tawbah should be made. If your’ll continue, your’ll will continue destroying your hearts and minds and wound your roohaniyyat and spirituality. Your’ll will not enjoy your salaah, and your hearts will be occupied with all this filth. Your’ll will be deprived of the mercy of Allah. In fact your sin of free talking to the girl will incur the anger and wrath of Allah. If you wish to marry her, follow procedures and get married.
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