Fatwa #1456925 September 2006Pakistan
Becoming Parents
Question
I got married 6 months before.my wife is not pregnant yet. we both are worried about this.
we just want to know that should we contact the doctor? or do we use a correct and right way of intercourse? or is here any dua or WAZAIF for being parent?
Please help us and many other people who dont have childern and they are shy to ask such questions.
If you provide detailed information about the method, and any thing related to this subject It will be a great serving of human being.
If you can provide any link so please Guide us.
I know that there is no need to worry about this before 1year minimum. But I just want to know that what is the corret way of having sex with wife and what should be the frequancy?
Before marriage, we dont have any knowledge and nobody told us about the night meeting (intercource).
And I feel shy asking such questions from any body even from my doctor.
Is here any Typical positions, Time,or method to have intercourse so that my wife can be pregnant?
Please guide us in detail.
Thank youo very much.
Answer
Islam is a religion of shame and modesty. Rasulullah (S.A.W) said, Shame is a big branch of Imaan. It will be against shame and modesty to explain the inner details of intimacy between the husband and wife. You are married and have been intimate with your wife. There is no special formula of pregnancy. The husband and wife adopt intimacy and intercourse as a means. The effect of the means is in the will of Allah. He decides who will get a child and when the person will get a child. Accordingly fertilisation takes place. Rasulullah (S.A.W) had children from Khadija (RA) and not from all the other wife’s. Allah gives us the incident of Ebrahim (AS) who had Ismaeel (AS) and Ishaq (AS) at old age. Zakariyya (AS) also got yahya (AS) at old age. Your are married only recently, make dua that if a child/ren are good for you and your Deen, Allah must grant you a child/ren. The decree of Allah is the best for every individual.