Bad behaviour to parents and bad dua! Help!!!i lose my temper.... Is there a prayer that can be said that will make me a better child?

Parents are a blessing even if they are difficult. They are your tickets to%0D%0AHeaven literally both in this world and the next.%0D%0A%0D%0AFirstly seek forgiveness from both parents sincerely. Ask them to forgive%0D%0Ayou for every hurt and pain caused to them. Ask them to make positive dua%0D%0Afor you, for your character and for your future especially to change the dua%0D%0Afrom Hell to Paradise. Only dua can change taqdeer. Rememeber Our Creator%0D%0AAllah Ta'ala is Most Merciful continuous in Mercy, a Mercy that we cannot%0D%0Aunderstand, neither possess but we need to make effort to gain the Mercy and%0D%0AAllah Ta'ala has given us hope in the Quraan - "Do not despair in the Mercy%0D%0Aof Allah Ta'ala."%0D%0A%0D%0ASo your father's and mother's deep hearted duas for you will help.%0D%0AFurthermore it will need a deep hearted effort and need from within you to%0D%0Achange. Remember place Allah Ta'ala in front of you. If you take one step%0D%0Atowards Allah, HE will take ten towards you, making your path easy for you%0D%0A(something to the effect). The following should be attempted:%0D%0A%0D%0A1. Smile at your parents even if it is difficult to do so. (Remember do it%0D%0Afor Allah Ta'ala, HE will be pleased).%0D%0A2. Wow ! Your parents too will get a shock.%0D%0A3. Greet them and show them kindness morning and evening. Do them little%0D%0Aextra favours. (Remember it's your duty and they don't have to appreciate%0D%0Ait. So don't expect anything in return. Do this for Allah Ta'ala's pleasure%0D%0Aonly).%0D%0A4. When you feel irritated consider how would you feel if your child%0D%0Ascreamed and showed anger to you. Warn yourself .%0D%0A5. Remind yourself, anger is from Shaitaan. When you feel the heat of your%0D%0Aanger developing, walk away, make wudhu, sit down, drink a glass of water%0D%0Athank Allah Ta'ala and if you are sitting lie down, sleep away think of%0D%0AAllah Ta'ala being happy at your efforts.%0D%0A6. If issues need to be addressed, re-think on how to address them politely%0D%0Aand lovingly. Don't expect them to agree, at least your message went%0D%0Athrough. Make dua and leave to Allah Ta'ala your isues. You will see how%0D%0Abeautiful your outcomes will then be. Insha Allah. Sometimes one doesn't%0D%0Aseee this immediately but after a whike this becomes evident.%0D%0A%0D%0ANB Also note aggressive%2F rebellious behaviour sometimes stems from issues%0D%0Anot addressed , anger at some situation, or sometimes you need to deal with%0D%0Ait in your life. Perhaps discuss or address this yourself or with some%0D%0Areliable person.%0D%0A%0D%0AA good dua for beautiful character every time you look in the mirror read%0D%0A"Allahhumma anta hassanta Khalqi fa hassin Khuluqi.'%0D%0A%0D%0AFor anger read " Aoozu biltaahi minash shaitaa nir rajeem.'%0D%0A%0D%0AAlso for softness of characyter and removal of difficulties ' Yaa Arhamor%0D%0Araahimee' the amount according to every indiidual (1 time, or 3 times or 100%0D%0Atimes)%0D%0A%0D%0AIstigtaar repentance daily read Astagfirullah 100 times .%0D%0A%0D%0AEnsure you pray your 5 daily salaah and recite some Quraan daily.%0D%0A%0D%0AMay Allah Ta'ala make your path easy.%0D%0A%0D%0Aand Allah Ta'ala Knows Best%0D%0A%0D%0A2SOCIAL DEPT.%0D%0A%0D%0ACHECKED & APPROVED: Mufti Ebrahim Desai